Comfortable

I’m not trying to say you should never be comfortable in your life, but that you should never get too comfortable. Life is a gamble... [lighter flick] “and I’m all about my poker chips.”

Never Settle

Aye so look, ya girl has NOT been to her regular 9-5 in 3 weeks and it’s been AMAZING!!! This year I’ve already been striving on this spiritual journey and indulging in self love while also showing love to others and it’s been great but not working at that job... 10/10! The month of August … Continue reading Never Settle

Normalized Toxic Entanglements

When I planned things for myself coming into 2020 I did not take into account that the world could just go into shambles during my self care year. This year, I planned to make big moves for myself (that are still coming to fruition) but I had no idea that each month would bring something … Continue reading Normalized Toxic Entanglements

What’s Left

I am nowhere near where I want to be in life but I’m taking the steps to get there. These 20 somethings are a lot to handle and it’s better if we see that we’re not the only ones going through certain things. Some people are blessed to have figured out the mathematical equation to … Continue reading What’s Left

Thug Passion

On one of my old laptops the background represents who I am deep down inside. It’s this background of some roses, so vibrant and full of life, with the words “Thug Life” written across the middle. You couldn’t tell me I wasn’t about to get that tattoo either - the one tattoo my mom pleaded … Continue reading Thug Passion

But It Feels Right

Maaaaannnnn why does the wrong thing feel like the right thing? There’s like an adrenaline rush that comes with doing the opposite of what I know I should be doing. Back in high school I broke curfew several times KNOWING there would be consequences because I was having more fun staying out then I would … Continue reading But It Feels Right

Forgive and…

My mother always taught me it was important to forgive and forget when someone does you wrong. She said it was one of the Bible’s many important lessons and that I should adhere to it. The whole concept seemed dated to me because why did I have to forgive the person AND forget what they … Continue reading Forgive and…

Thank you, next!

A few days ago I gave myself a deadline to post on my blog on the first day of 2020. I don’t even do deadlines, I literally post when I feel like it. Then I tried to think about what I wanted to write about and it was bad. I wrote out a whole post … Continue reading Thank you, next!

Setting Boundaries

So lately I’ve been working on putting limits to certain things; you know like protecting my energy and keeping my thoughts positive and all that yada yada. The most important boundary I have come across lately is just making sure to be confident in who I am and strong in what I feel and believe … Continue reading Setting Boundaries