Don’t Hurt Yourself

This year I started it off differently. I took off the 2nd and 3rd of January and used those first few days to make better plans and choices for myself. I made sure I was calm, cool, and collected before returning back to work. I made a plan and I was good. Even when everything … Continue reading Don’t Hurt Yourself

Day 46

It was all good just a month ago. I started the year with a wave of new energy and motivated to do things differently in regards to my career, finances, and my relationships. I made a vision board that defined what I’m trying to pursue this year and included things to help keep my 4 … Continue reading Day 46

Thank you, next!

A few days ago I gave myself a deadline to post on my blog on the first day of 2020. I don’t even do deadlines, I literally post when I feel like it. Then I tried to think about what I wanted to write about and it was bad. I wrote out a whole post … Continue reading Thank you, next!

Faith Back Jumping

I don’t know where these scared tactics have come from but this isn’t it. I’m really not the type to play it safe with most things, like I’m quick to jump the gun when I see an opportunity, but lately I’ve been all timid when it comes to my plans and trying too hard to … Continue reading Faith Back Jumping

Setting Boundaries

So lately I’ve been working on putting limits to certain things; you know like protecting my energy and keeping my thoughts positive and all that yada yada. The most important boundary I have come across lately is just making sure to be confident in who I am and strong in what I feel and believe … Continue reading Setting Boundaries

Self Aware

Impulse n. 1. a sudden strong and unreflective urge or desire to act 2. A driving or motivating force; an impetus 3. Waneisha Lately I’ve been trying to analyze my thoughts and actions more i.e be more self aware. In doing so I’ve found a rather “alarming” quality (like all the rest of them honestly) … Continue reading Self Aware

Superwoman The Villain

I keep a lot of things that I shouldn’t, things that represent memories of simpler times. I kept them to remember the good and ignore the bad or the red flags that were always there. Too busy trying to be Superwoman and change a dead situation that I didn’t realize how much of a villain … Continue reading Superwoman The Villain

Coaching Ain’t Easy

So I’ve been contemplating whether or not I’d jump on my soapbox after the season I’ve had. This year I didn’t (well my parents didn’t) broadcast it as much that I was coaching club volleyball again this year. I had the 12U team and they came to do really well this season and I’m proud … Continue reading Coaching Ain’t Easy