I don’t know where these scared tactics have come from but this isn’t it. I’m really not the type to play it safe with most things, like I’m quick to jump the gun when I see an opportunity, but lately I’ve been all timid when it comes to my plans and trying too hard to … Continue reading Faith Back Jumping
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So lately I’ve been working on putting limits to certain things; you know like protecting my energy and keeping my thoughts positive and all that yada yada. The most important boundary I have come across lately is just making sure to be confident in who I am and strong in what I feel and believe … Continue reading Setting Boundaries
Last week I decided to take myself on a self proclaimed “soul cleanse” just to realign my focus and work on my spiritual health. Lately I’ve been trying to exude more positive vibes and really taking the time to breathe deeply and make affirmations for my life. I’ve also been working on cleansing the negative … Continue reading Soul Cleanse
Impulse n. 1. a sudden strong and unreflective urge or desire to act 2. A driving or motivating force; an impetus 3. Waneisha Lately I’ve been trying to analyze my thoughts and actions more i.e be more self aware. In doing so I’ve found a rather “alarming” quality (like all the rest of them honestly) … Continue reading Self Aware
I keep a lot of things that I shouldn’t, things that represent memories of simpler times. I kept them to remember the good and ignore the bad or the red flags that were always there. Too busy trying to be Superwoman and change a dead situation that I didn’t realize how much of a villain … Continue reading Superwoman The Villain
This past Mother’s Day was just another day to me. I love my mom to death and would want nothing more but to see her happy but I just don’t get into the hype of the day (or any of these national commercialized holidays but that’s a story for another day). As I read through … Continue reading Mother, Not BFF
I’ve been blessed to finally find a circle of friends that I feel I will have around me forever... and that this time it actually means forever. My track record with friends hasn’t been the best but it hasn’t been the worst either. Everybody I was cool with in grade school, although I still have … Continue reading Supportive Friends
One of the homies hit me up the other day and said she was thinking about taking a leap of faith and leaving her job. She said she isn’t happy there and she’d rather use her time toward her passion and her own business. I told her to pray on it (the typical answer) but … Continue reading Testimony Tuesday: A Leap of Faith
Breathe. Sometimes I get worked up thinking about things. Like it’ll start with one little thought about how I need to do one thing and then 3 min later I’ve piled on extra things and now I’m near tears and my breathing has changed. Inhaling and exhaling at controlled rates becomes difficult. I look around … Continue reading Unravel
When you're young, friendships are tighter. You're around each other more often than not and you can never see yourself not being around that person. Day in and day out y'all are together doing whatever without a real responsibility or care in the world. Then you hit 18 and/or go off to college; somewhere along … Continue reading PSA: Grown Friends
