Three days in and I’ve been in my feelings every damn day! I’m literally about to already have a 2021 recap.
For starters: I crushed my 2020 goals. (Yes I’m about to talk about 2020 in my 3 days of 2021 but hear me out). I wanted to put out a new blog post every month – did that. I started my own business after toying with the idea for three years – #ShopCheckMyLipss. I said I wasn’t playing games with people’s sons… I mean for the most part I didn’t except for like one or two but either way, I stuck to what I said. I touched more money and I gained closer relationships with certain people that I’m thankful to have with me in life. Y’all I FINALLY have a gang of female friends (it’s really like 4 but gang gang either way).
I started this year with a positive outlook on life and stated my goals and intentions for myself under the moon. Even though I brought it in at work I just felt calm and at peace because I had come to a few realizations:
1. Make the money, don’t let it make you. I’m not about to get paid less than I’m worth for a job that I hate. I’m not even about to chase a bag to the point I need therapy from chasing the bag. Is the bag really worth my mental health? Hell no.
2. I’m capable of making some pretty tough decisions myself. If I include the help of others, it’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it probably won’t be what needs to be done. I can be very cutthroat when it comes to certain matters. Sometimes you just have to rip the bandaid off and keep it pushing. You can’t always spare the feelings of others because you can end up hurting yourself. I just need to remember to trust myself.
3. The streets aren’t fun anymore and I want out. If we meet and you and I aren’t on the same page, guess who’s not waiting around for you to maybe change your mind? This girl!! I’m choosing myself and what I want EVERY SINGLE TIME. Your number wasn’t saved anyway because you’re a hoe until proven otherwise [Kanye shrug]. I’m still a coach to people who are in the game, though, so if you need some help I got you.
Three days with three big lessons. Time is one of the top 3 things I hate to be played with and if anything, 2020 showed me how important time is for sure. Does that mean I’m rushing? No because I’m a pimp by blood baby, I take my time. But at the end of the day I’m not wasting it on things that don’t serve any purpose for me. If it’s slowing me down or costing me in any way, shape, or form then I have to cut it off. What’s meant to be will be so if I wasn’t supposed to cut it off, it’ll come back. But remember pests and rodents will come back too if you don’t keep your house clean so play it smart. Don’t play yourself.
I hope you all have a fantastic new year.
Oh and can y’all stop partying long enough to get the panoramic under control? I’m trying to be on somebody’s beach this summer without the mask… among other things…
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