Aye so look, ya girl has NOT been to her regular 9-5 in 3 weeks and it’s been AMAZING!!! This year I’ve already been striving on this spiritual journey and indulging in self love while also showing love to others and it’s been great but not working at that job… 10/10! The month of August hit me with profound truths, one of them being that I’ve finally found true happiness in the current and it’s a true blessing. Like being genuinely happy and rarely upset does wonders for the mental. It’s such a wild time but being able to proclaim happiness with myself is big for me. My mental health has greatly improved over the past couple of years and I’m forever thankful. I’m finally at the point where I’m hustling to where I want to be in life + I’m happy with my growth and where I currently am. I’ve been able to truly dictate my values and do only the things that are going to positively impact me. My skin is getting clearer and my booty is getting bigger – boy that happiness does wonders!!! All this time I thought happiness was so hard to find but really the list of rules is short:
1. Never Settle.
It’s that simple. Never settle for anything in life. You’re not happy with where you work, live, relationships, finances, mental health, etc., the answer is simple – never settle. But then you know the phrase that follows that “it’s easier said than done” which is very true. Once you’ve realized where you’re fed up and where your unhappiness lies then formulate a plan to change things. For example: I deserve to be a rich b!+ch. I deserve to be able to spend a bag on me and it never hurt. I deserve for my bills to be fully paid with all types of funds left over. I know my full worth, so why would I sit at somebody’s job where they negatively impact my mental health and don’t provide the funds I need to live like I’m supposed to live? I shouldn’t! Unfortunately with the current state of the union, it’s not that easy to go out and get other jobs resulting in people staying stuck in current situations. But in the words of the prophetess’ Caresha & JT, “I don’t work jobs, b!+ch, I am a job” and I don’t know… but that fueled some kind of hustle in me for sure. See jobs work us to ruins for their benefit; they use you all they can and if you’re not working well enough for them, you get replaced. We should have that same attitude towards jobs – if the job isn’t doing all it can to keep me happy, it gets replaced. Realizing I deserved more helped me finally put some action behind my faith and launch CheckMyLipss, LLC. It also showed me that I don’t have to stick at any job that’s paying me more s#!t than dollars which explains me leaving my 9-5 for the past 3 weeks and going to work my other job instead. I’d rather do things that challenge me to be better and work harder than do things that challenge me to get out of bed in the morning or shut my mouth before I say the wrong thing out loud. I can’t settle for being unhappy. If 2020 hasn’t shown us anything else, it has definitely shown us that life is short. Don’t spend too much time waiting for things to get better for you. Sometimes you just need to pray and get after it – remember Faith, without work, is dead. Life is too short to get stressed at a job, fight tooth and nail for a relationship, never take the trips, or simply to live to please someone else. I’ve been Boo Boo the Fool for settling on way less than I deserve and it’s a mid experience.
Never settle.
You deserve more.
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